Lisa's sister called me tonight. We love her so much. She is a fun person to talk to and has great family values. She tried to apologize for everything and I told her it was not her fault. In the end she was supportive of the adoption and we thank her for that.
She told me some sad news tonight. Lisa moved out of her house and is on her own for the first time with Tyler. Tyler ended up in the hospital. Lisa took him there because she said he was throwing up. She then asked the nurses if she could leave because she had something to do. The nurse told Lisa's sister that in 26 years she has never seen a parent leave her child in the ER. Tyler was very hungry when he arrived and had rashes up and down his legs. I think the hospital called CYFD. When Lisa was found by her sister she was with a boy on the floor in her new place. I guess this is what she needed to do that was so important instead of be with Tyler. Her sister thinks that Tyler will end up in foster care for a long, long time.
Lisa's sister kept referring to Tyler as "the baby". I asked if Lisa had changed his name since she is calling him "the baby". She said no. She left his name Tyler Lawrence and just changed his last name. I find that very interesting that she left Lawrence as that is Owen's middle name. I would have thought she would have changed that and possibly his first name. Lisa's sister said that she refers to Tyler as "my baby" instead of using his first name.
Life is not fair, and poor Tyler is starting out a very rough road ahead.
I think she told me all of this because she knew I would understand how she feels and was basically telling me that Tyler would be better in our home. But, I just want to know he is being loved and cared for. He's just a baby and deserves at least that.
If she is going to parent please, please love and take care of Tyler. Please pray for Tyler that he is loved, safe, and is being taken care of.
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